You're trying to master skills that take most people 20 years (40 for me).
It's simply not practical to answer one question at a time from a remote distance, which then only provokes another question.
You were right the first time: you need to find someone to do this for you.
im not trying to master skills just learn them. im sure 40 years ago someone was there to help you and show you how to do things and im sure you improved on those basics to come to the skill level you have today. i do not have anyone in my life who deals with cars at all i have no one to show me how to get started, so i searched the internet and found the biggest pool of knowledge i could and asked questions. some people have shops they can hang out in and watch and learn this is my "shop". i thank you for all the help you have given me so far and i understand if you dont want to answer anymore. i had given up trying to work on this car and this site and this thread gave me the push i needed to do it myself, and now you are basically telling me that i cant. i might ask very basic questions but i want to learn as much as possible. sorry this was asuch a long post thank you for all the help i was not trying to be rude in any way.