Robert - sorry to see your truck taking a hit like that. Try to remember it is just a truck and be glad you weren't seriously injured. Lots of options for a new fender and door - and the lower cab sheet metal isn't too difficult to make straight again, I have repaired a similar bit of damage to that section of the cab before - not fun, but not difficult either.
Thanks also for the note on the type of sway bar. I have a rear mounted spare to the aft side of the axle and a second fuel tank on the passenger side in front of the axle - so it is a little crowded under there but I'll see what I can do.