Where are they blowing? Do they fail at the same spot? it seems that there must be some misalignment or warped surfaces. I've driven several 235s and 261s thousands of miles with several different combinations of intake and exhaust manifolds, all with stock GM or aftermarket gaskets, and have never had an exhaust or intake manifold gasket blow. The exhaust manifolds that I have used have been completely stock, split stock, or Corvette six. I've never used Clifford headers. Intake manifolds have been stock, McGurk (which bolts to the exhaust manifold), or Harper (which does not attach to the exhaust manifold).
The Flatout Gasket Co. will make custom gaskets, if there is plenty of money to spend.