Just checked again, no PM's from you, got some from other guy's. Try copy and pasting the one you can see and send again.
It will get better when they are more responsible. But I have found that then they start getting involved with dance, 4H, FFA, soccer, tee ball, softball, basketball, football and the list goes on and on. You will not believe how much time is involved and money is small amounts. It's all good though.